notes.

You can be a whole package but at a wrong address. Most people who are naturally givers are stuck in an unrequited situation because of their attachment issues. On top of that, people glorify unconditional love. But we are adults, humans who crave connection. We need reciprocation. Most times people mistake limerence for love and spend their valuable time and energy on people (a parent, partner, friend) who don't want the same. If you like someone, let them know. If they don't reciprocate, move on and find someone else. Don't be stuck on them thinking it's a virtue to love someone unconditionally. It's foolishness. Understand that you need all the love you claim to be giving.

I don't really see how someone could be a feminist and support any religion. My thoughts and opinions on reality are closest to Buddhism, but even Buddhism has all these extra rules for female monks that males don't have to follow, and they straight up go to hell for being a woman. I am kind of deep diving on this whole religion thing to know where I stand on that topic. Religion in general is a scourge and seems to be a boys' club at the end of the day.

Why this is. This is a space for the thoughts and ideas that don't fit into a full blog post, but are still worth keeping. Half-formed things, kept honestly.